Incompleteness is necessary to live…

On hearing the word incompleteness, a negative thought comes into the mind. Because this word in itself denotes some shortcomings of life, but think that if this slight deficiency is not there in life, then life will not end?

If you pay attention, the man is motivated to work; it is lacking. Whatever step we take, it is only in the direction of filling this void. Psychologists say that some innate powers inside a human being motivate him to move away from any negative emotion and choose the best option from the available options. Anything that brings imbalance in life, a man tries to move it in the direction of balance.

If there is no shortage, then there will be no need, if there is no need, then there will be no attraction, and if there is no attraction, then there will be no goal. If there is no hunger, then going towards food does not arise. Therefore, it is not right to negatively look at any shortcomings in your life. The real thing is that this lack or incompleteness acts as a motivator for us.

There are shortcomings in everyone's life, just its form and level are different. Everything in this world has been done and will continue to be done to make up for that shortcoming. Whatever the behavior, whether it is daily work, going to the office, a love relationship or making new relationships with someone, all the work is done to fill that emptiness of life. Yes, it may be possible that some people keep working to better that deficiency even after it is filled.

Take any event, be it the fight for freedom, a revolution, a small crime, a big crime, or a charity; every work is meant to remove some incompleteness. It has been proved from many types of research that what kind of clothes a person wears, what kind of book he reads, what type of program he likes to watch, and what type of organization he is associated with, all these things to overcome that shortcoming of his life.

Han psychologist Maslow has said that a person's life revolves around five needs.

Maslow's hierarchy of needs:

1.      First basic need.

2.      Second protection

3.      Third relations or love,

4.      Fourth soul

5.      And the fifth is self-actualization, in which a person makes full use of his abilities.

It is not necessary that we can reach all the stages mentioned in Maslow's Hierarchy of needs in our lives and overcome every deficiency, but we do try.

Many incidents are heard, where people have changed the shortcomings of their life into their strength and due to which the whole world knows them, in which the name of Albert Einstein and Abraham Lincoln comes at the top.

Albert Einstein was a victim of learning disability since birth; he could not speak for four years and could not read for nine years. He had also failed in the first attempt at college entrance. But still, what he has done is incomparable.

Abraham Lincoln faced many health-related problems in his life. He faced defeat many times in his life, even once he had a nervous breakdown, but still, he became the sixteenth President of America at the age of 52.

If a person wants, he can make the incompleteness of his life the most significant source of his inspiration.

The incompleteness that inspires us to do something in life, how can it be negative.

"Just think! That if this little incompleteness is not there in our life, then how incomplete life would be!!!!”